Frequently Asked Questions:
How do I contact you?
I don’t want to leave a comment for all your five readers to see.
Email me: thejordansare AT hotmail DOT com
I haven’t received a reply to my email/comment/love letter. Why?
I’m retired, but I have a life. I like to watch court shows and babysit my granddaughter, so I may not be able to reply to your message. I’ll try though. But, if you’re message was hateful or hurtful, I won’t reply. Instead, I will post them for others to bask in all its glory. I’m unselfish that way.
How old are you?
Old enough to not have to answer this question.
Where do you live?
Southern California (did you not read the About Nancy page?)
I think your mom deserves better care and you’re not giving it!
How could you say such things about her?
I love my mom, but that doesn’t mean I always like her. If you’re up for a challenge, please take care of her so I can go on vacation.


You may not remember me but I am a friend of Salle’s from way, way back. We met at church when we were five and it seems to have stuck. I have been to your mom’s house and swimming in that pool many a time. I enjoyed your mom and dad and I am so sorry to hear how your mom has changed since your dad’s passing.
I stumbled across your blog entirely by accident – I was googling around and looking up caregiver blogs. I found yours and was so taken by the photo art & title. I started to read and immediately began laughing and nodding my head. Then I got to the part where you mention Dana you daughter… well I started to go ‘huh, that’s ironic, I knew a Nancy with a daughter Dana in So Cal’ and then I got to the blog where you mention your cousin Salle’s emergency operation! Ha! Puzzle pieces fell together pretty quick. I immediately e-mailed Salle (ok, no I about peed my pants laughing so hard reading about your roof fire, THEN I e-mailed her) and she filled me in. So thank you Nancy, for writing the blog AND for writing about Salla. Sorry I wrote so much but I wanted to introduce myself and let you know that you now officially have a 6th reader! LOL
Take care of you and yours Nancy and God’s blessings!